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By riakkim

As my time in Korea has increased and I increasingly acclimate to Korean society, I have felt a strong longing to meet and chat with 교포들, "gyopos," a term used for Koreans who didn't grow up in Korea. Perhaps because the glow of being in Korea has begun to fade and I feel that surreal-ness fading with it, I still have not been able to make any close "Korean-Korean" friends, despite being proficient enough in the language, and instead building close friendships with Korean-Americans, Korean-Brazillians, Korean-Australians, etc.

I've found that the gyopo community here is really its own within Korea, just as it is back home in America, both feeling that they don't really belong in either place, lending me to my post title, perpetual foreigner. I can't deny my American childhood despite growing up with Korean customs, and its frustrating to be treated coldly by many of my Korean peers as well, as Koreans can be very cold, particularly to foreigners.

Yet finding my gyopo community within Korea has also been more rewarding and comforting than my Korean-American community back home, perhaps because of the short period its been and many are only here for a short period. Yet between schools and my church community, I feel that the gyopo here feel like an even tighter community, using a mix of English and Korean as we usually do, and perhaps even looking like a group of normal Koreans on the streets, yet the mutual understanding and feeling of being considered "not a Korean" in Korea and "Korean" anywhere else in the world perhaps has a stronger effect than I ever could have imagined.

...continue reading "Perpetual Foreigner"

By riakkim

七寶/Qibao Traditional Boat Village

I'm sure you've all heard of it- China's Great Firewall, that blocks most everything convenient to Americans; our social media, video streaming sites, to our beloved Google. The obvious answer that I hear around this is "VPN!," but it was hard for me to really fathom how suffocating and suppressing it really was on the inside when I arrived in Shanghai.

The small things I really take for granted back home and in Seoul- like all my social media, all my chatting apps, Google (and not Bing), YouTube, WordPress- they're all blocked in China, and coming back from such a controlled environment felt surprisingly liberating and entirely refreshing. Perhaps it's because I'm part of a generation addicted to their smartphones and used to information, it was frustrating to not only have slow internet, but to even use sites such as Bing in order to find more information. Even when planning my brief visit towards Macau on my way back to Seoul, or trying to access my airline tickets on Gmail- everything was quite difficult and roundabout- taking far more time than it should have.

...continue reading "Great Firewall + Shanghai"

By riakkim

After months of quite cold weather, spring has finally arrived in Seoul. While the nights are still chilly and the weather is still fickle, the moods of everyone seemed to have brightened with the better weather. Springs songs abound, and popular spring songs such as Busker Busker's Cherry Blossom Ending, HIGH4&IU's Not Spring, Cherry Blossoms, or Love, and Roy Kim's Spring Spring Spring are making their yearly rounds.

The winter jackets have been stowed away as lighter clothes take their place, and its lovely to see pastels, florals, skirts and dresses take their place. And then there are couples, which can be seen even more frequently than before, wearing their matching outfits. And much like cuffing season in the US, there is much talk floating around about who has started dating with the start of spring.

좌천로망스다리 / Yeojwa Cheonro Romance Path

I spent the past weekend in Jinhae, a part of Changwon, located in the very southernmost part of Korea along the shoreline. It's the most famous area in Korea for Cherry Blossoms, and it has many areas filled with Cherry Blossoms and accompanying festivals. We went to the 여좌천로망스다리 (Yeojwa Cheonro Romance Path), the 경화역 벚꽃길 (Gyeonghwa Station Cherry Blossom Road), and 제황산공원 (Jehwangsan Park). Each one was filled with not only cherry blossoms, but stalls upon stalls of food, gifts, and vendors, while the path was full of visitors, all taking pictures, eating, or buying food.

...continue reading "Spring, Spring, Spring"

By riakkim

Study culture in Korea can be pretty intense, and I've found that Koreans primarily study in two places: cafes and the various study spaces around campus, such as the library. Unlike America, Korea has various places that are like a library study environment but without the books. Regarding these study places, they have a very intense atmosphere and are dead silent inside- even making a slight sound makes me nervous and uncomfortable, and they feel slightly sanitary at times.

There are distinctions between laptop-use areas and areas that are limited to books only, and most of the time students have stands that keep their books up so that they are easier to read (like a music stand, but for desks).

Another difference is that you have to reserve spots prior to entering, and you can extend your time or change seats this way, but it can be frustrating if you don't know the area well and I've found myself changing seats on this system so I can sit by a window but don't know the seat number. I've found its a good place to sit and concentrate when I have lots of work I need to finish, and despite its occasional sanitary feeling, I've found that the ones on the upper level of Samsung Hall are wide open and spacious, which helps to make it feel a little better.

Another place that Koreans used to study are these places with desks and a light, that are much like the cubicles you can find inside Gelman third floor- but these rooms only have rows and rows of those cubicles. They're open late night which is good, but because of the rising popularity of cafes many of those places are running out of business.

...continue reading "Study and Couple Culture"

By riakkim

Something that's been on my mind a lot nowadays is definitely the fact that I appear Korean, can speak a bit of Korean, and fit right in both looks-wise and first-impression wise. After some time speaking of course locals realize my Korean isn't perfect and will often ask where I'm from and if I'm a 4-year or exchange student, but it's strange not really being able to fit in entirely but definitely being treated on the streets as a local, in small interactions as one, and just in general occupying this space of limbo. I luckily have met other Korean-Americans who identify the same way and sharing that experience with others in really indulging into our heritage and the realities of being a Korean-American in Korea, and the prejudices and struggles that only we face.

The most obvious, and huge, advantage that I've had here is the ability to comprehend quite a bit of Korean and to speak it- from simple things like ordering delivery over the phone (everywhere delivers here, including McDonald's) to buying street food, haggling down the prices of clothes, organizing group gatherings, and most especially during classes. Despite the reassurances of the upperclassmen who said everybody speaks English here, coming in without being able to read the language (at the very least, it only takes about two hours to learn) I think is both foolish and culturally insensitive. While a large population of Korea can understand English and speak very basic English (especially compared to countries such as Japan), it still can be difficult to do some basic interactions, such as checking out the convenience store.

And while most of these things come with relative ease to me, the biggest struggle I've had has been one of my classes, Electromagnetic Fields and Waves, where the professor speaks about 80% in Korean despite it being a course taught in English (English courses are still filled with majority Korean students, since seats are limited and course registration is quite hectic). Despite the fact that I understand about 70% of the Korean, I'm constantly looking up technical words and added to the fact that I'm not very familiar with the subject and the many variables used, I find it quite stressful and cannot even imagine how much work it would be for my peers who don't understand Korean whatsoever. Korea has really been a place where the rules are flexible and nothing is set in stone; quite different in comparison to America.

...continue reading "Camouflaged"

By riakkim

Something that I continue to find astonishing is how small South Korea is- in comparison to the US, it would fit between San Francisco and LA, about the size of Indiana. Yet there's so much history and culture to be found wherever I go; in this case, Daegu, the second largest city in the Kyungsangdo region in Southeast Korea.

As soon as we arrived, we could tell the feel of the city was more relaxed, people weren't as in a rush and preoccupied, and there was a sort of friendliness that isn't as commonly found in Seoul. People would help you if something dropped from your pockets, and if you bumped into someone, both parties usually apologized, unlike the subtle glares I feel I commonly received in Seoul. The sky was wider, roads bigger, and Daegu was a sort of peace from the overwhelming and slightly lonelier nature of Seoul.

This was the first place i experienced outside of Seoul, and needless to say, it helped me understand Korean culture a little bit more. I think that one of the most charming aspects of Daegu was their 사투리, "satoori", or accent. The have a very distinct accent, and they speak slower and emphasize the vowels more- but sometimes it can be a little difficult to understand. It's something I really never hear much of back home, since growing up most of us learn the standard Seoul Korean (which is also why sometimes I have trouble understanding my grandparents).

...continue reading "Daegu"

By riakkim

School has started, and suddenly the hills of Anam are filled with students, conversation, laughter, and food- a stark contrast to the quieter days of late February. The start of school after three months of quiet living, traveling, and relaxation is strange and slightly surreal, especially as I occupy said strange place as a passing Korean yet exchange student.

Classes are hectic with add-and-drop, and there's a strange situation of English taught classes- where lectures are supposed to be in English but filled with Korean students, leading to the reality of lectures and questions in a mix of English and Korean. I luckily understand most of the Korean, yet my peers who don't speak the language are often confused and it can be difficult and tiring to translate everything going on, despite my best efforts. Classes are also quite different, as teaching style here is less interactive and more lecture-based, unlike many of the courses I take back home at GW.

I had the golden opportunity to travel to Busan this past weekend, as part of a sponsored trip for international students by one of Korean's largest conglomerates, Doosan Heavy Industries and Construction. As my first time in Busan, I was overwhelmed with the beauty of the area- Busan is one of Korea's major ports and I was shocked to see the ocean is so blue, skies so clear, and weather so mild with the ocean breeze. I fell in love at first sight, and wished my stay could be longer than 2 days 1 night. Since the trip was sponsored by Doosan, we had the opportunity to meet several managers and tour some of their facilities, my favorite being the RO plant, a reverse osmosis plant that purifies sea water into drinking water. The process is something that is usually known to be expensive and not very efficient, yet they had engineered a plant that purifies water at a similar cost to river water purification, technology that the Middle East particularly has a large need for (Saudi Arabia's government is a particularly large customer of Doosan).

...continue reading "Cultural Differences"

By riakkim

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I've been fortunate enough to have spent the last three and a half days in Tokyo, where I flew into before I head to Seoul tomorrow morning. Given that I had such a large winter break (Korea's semester begins March 1), learning to adapt while traveling and maintaining an open mind has been crucial for my learning experience.

Tokyo is a huge city. I've found that it can be easy to lose yourself in the business and bustle, or feel just as overwhelmed by the sheer amount of things to do. Although I may be a tourist now, if I'm not learning from my travels, I think they're honestly pointless, because I believe the purpose of travel is to learn more about the human experience, both yours and of the people of that place.

Subtle things, like different cultural mannerisms, ways of speaking, and habits are important to notice and learn from- for example, something I constantly forgot was that the Japanese drive on the left side of the road (the opposite of the US), and those habits translate to walking on streets, waiting on escalators, and moving to the side for incoming people. The Japanese also have mannerisms that are generally quite respectful- always greeting a customer while entering and exiting, the whole staff in an area thanking a customer when they leave or enter a restaurant, handing things with two hands, and bowing heads during an exchange- they're all quite familiar to me, who grew up a Korean-American with many similar habits, but could be strange and perhaps annoying to someone who doesn't understand a social hierarchy held up by motions of respect.

...continue reading "First Days"

By riakkim

Mountain

For me, there's always a certain magic about being home. The towering mountains, a reassuring presence in the west, and the laid back people,  a community that thrives a little differently than those back in DC. I realize here my time in Denver is short, and to treasure the little time I have with my family. And being back home gives me the environment to think and be introspective, because this is the place that has largely shaped who I am, and sent me off to be more finely detailed and polished in DC.

In preparation for study abroad, one of the most important things for me was to come home and reevaluate myself- my values, my relationships, and my goals. The process of self-realization has been a little painful, just as growing pains are in nature, but being sure in myself and having confidence in my person is something that I see as essential to making the most of my study abroad- to push myself and learn, change and improve for the better, but also never forgetting where I come from. Even now, I feel that back home I am a bit of a different person than who I am at GW, but embracing those realities and understanding why is important for me to also learn and prepare myself for how I may change in Korea.

...continue reading "Anticipation"