Discussing Equity
School leaders across Virginia came together to ask the questions:
- How do you facilitate discussions with colleagues about Black Lives Matter?
- Who should do “the work?”
- How does one encourage allies in leadership?
Though the answers varied, many noted that the journey can be both rewarding and difficult. In one case, a principal worked closely with a staff member who did not understand what was wrong with the phrase All Lives Matter. The principal decided to listen first, then respond. She waited as the staff person shared and “told their truth.” Next, the principal asked some questions and told the person that they were "going to really have to work at opening [their] eyes or [their] lens, and see things through a totally different lens." This helped the individual understand that “his experiences are not the experiences that everybody has had.” The staff person and the principal agreed to have frequent, almost daily conversations to check-in and discuss the Black Lives Matter movement. Multiple principals agreed that by allowing everyone to share their experiences and explain how they come to their opinions can be helpful in opening constructive dialogue and finding common ground.
Another principal spoke about the difficulty of engaging her audience when talking about equity in education. She said “but the balance beam we can fall off of is either going too far into storytelling or too far into data. And we tend to default one way or the other and going too far into either loses our audience. So if you show up with data and chart after chart, after chart, after chart, at the federal and state level, we get charts every day. You're not going to show me any gap that I haven't seen. You're not going to show me anything with a pretty line graph that I haven't already thought about. You've got all this great data, but you're presenting it in such a way that I'm tuned out. The flip side is you come in with these really compelling stories that are very specific to people and they are about individuals and they're very detailed. And the response is ‘Yes. But What's the data for this school.’ And that's why I say that it's a balance beam. So if you go too far either way you can fall off. And so before you go in to do this advocacy work, really think about not only what do you want on the other side of the conversation, but who is the person that you're talking to and what moves them.”
One resource that was brought up multiple times, was Dr. Anneliese A. Singh’s The Racial Healing Handbook.